HAPPY HOLIDAYS EVERYONE! It may be close to the end of the year, but we aren’t taking a #GuruTips break!

One of my friends mentioned how she always worries about having to discuss being an actress when she’s home for the holidays. Her family isn’t in the industry so every time she’s home, she always gets…

“Have you been in anything yet?”
“Don’t you know how hard it is to make money as an actor?”
“Shouldn’t you get a real job?”

Constantly hearing all of this can be discouraging, especially when you feel like you don’t have much to say. I created this quick video with some tips that you can use and consider when heading home for the holidays!

Heading home for the holidays can be… tough, especially when you’re an actor. You put work into your career, but still feel like you have nothing to share. We got you covered. Learn how to survive this holiday season as an actor with these #GuruTips from @ActResourceGuru @Ajarae! #ActorsLife #HolidaySeason #ShareClick to Tweet This Episode of #GuruTips!

Remember – whatever it is you’re doing, you ARE doing something. Your family wants you to succeed, so share what you’re up to! Having a great meeting with your agent to discuss pilot season is a GREAT update! (especially if they’re not in the industry!)

I hope these tips help you out this year! If you have a tip for surviving the holiday season as an actor, share it in the comments below! We’d love to hear it!

And are you a member of ARG yet? Why not? You can join Acting Resource Guru for FREE! Get access to the latest acting school, acting coach, and workshop studio reviews for LA, NY, and online, plus get the scoop on some of my favorite resources. Join your fellow community of actors, and let’s take back the power we have in this industry. Get more info and sign up for free at ActingResourceGuru.com/join!


Ajarae Coleman | Workshop Guru

P.S. This simple phrase: “I’m waiting to hear back on a role I got pinned for!” tends to keep the family in check. 😉 ha!

Previous articleYour Holiday Gift-Giving Guide
Next article5 Great Actors Who Struggled To Make It Big And What We Can Learn From Them
Ajarae Coleman is a working actress living in Los Angeles. You can see her on shows like ABC’s SCANDAL, REVENGE, PRIVATE PRACTICE, and THE CATCH, CBS’s THE McCARTHYS, 2 BROKE GIRLS, and NCIS: NEW ORLEANS, NBC’s DAYS OF OUR LIVES, TNT’s PERCEPTION, I'M SORRY on Netflix, and more. Ajarae founded Acting Resource Guru (ARG) in 2012 to give actors practical steps to book more work and take ownership of their careers. In 2020, Ajarae launched The Table, an exclusive online membership for actors who crave an artistic life that goes beyond just booking gigs. They are ready to make a greater impact, which looks like building communities of collaborators, creating their own opportunities, and developing residual income streams. Ajarae believes that actors play a huge role in bringing forth a reality where every being on the planet is safe and valued, and The Table empowers actors to claim their seat. Join the Interest List at ClaimASeat.com to be notified when the doors open for new members.


  1. For anyone who has given me a hard time about my acting career (not intentionally, of course), I usually educate them on what I’m learning (let them know what CDs are generally looking for, how to audition / self-tape properly, etc.).

    So far, it’s given me 100% non-irritating reactions. As a matter of fact, they’ve become more supportive and curious (in a positive way) about my acting career.

  2. Lol!!! Thanks for sharing this! I’ve had similar experiences with my family ….” if you want to be on that show what don’t you just do it! Call your agent and tell them to book you on!” Moderately frustrating… good for a giggle and just can’t take it seriously. Happy Holidays Ajarae!


Please enter your comment!
Please enter your name here